As soon as word gets out your having a baby everyone gives you advice. And most of the advice you hear is very helpful. I'll admit I've given advice too. And of course like everyone else I think my advice to be useful. But something I do try to do is if someone is planning on doing one thing with their child I don't try to push my views on them. Emily Grace is 10 months old now and still not sleeping through the night. I am tired. I have been getting up 2-6 times a night for a long time now. The last time she slept through the night was back in Oct I think? So yeah I'm tired .
Back to the advice. A friend's children sleep through the night. Including her almost 2 year old and 8 month old. I found out how a couple weeks ago. Her children put themselves to sleep. She puts them in their cribs, the 8 month old with a bottle, gives them a kiss and then leaves the room and shuts the door.
This is how she does naps and bedtime. I've seen it done at my own house with them and when we've been other places. It's now been suggested , by a couple people, to me that I try this method. While I think it's great that her kids are sleeping through the night and are very independent, this isn't the right method for me.
I just can't do it! I've her children crying themselves to sleep. Just last week when she was over she picked up the 8 month old to feed him , instead of propping his bottle up like normal , and when he started to fall asleep she said " Aw, your getting spoiled today. Mommy's holding the bottle for you and your getting to fall asleep in her lap"
Yes, I am tired. Yes on most nights by 4am Emily Grace is in bed with us because I am just so tired. But she's my baby. I won't get to hold her forever. One day she's going to be all grown up and I won't be able to hold her anymore. Now if someone does have some advice on helping her stay asleep after I've put her to bed that'd be great.